This morning we received a phone call from the hospital-it was the doctor looking after my uncle. He has deteriorated badly overnight. Basically the heart and lung conditions he has, along with his general health have left him very weak indeed, and he may not have survived those issues in normal times. Add in a severe chest infection and a mild dose of Covid 19 and it has been too much for his body to cope with. It has been decided by the medical staff that there is nothing else they can do for him as he is just too weak to fight it all, and they intend to make him comfortable now. It'll just be a matter of time before they call us with the news of his passing and all we can do now is wait, and be grateful that he is unconscious and not suffering. The medical staff attending my uncle on the ward have been amazing and I thank them for everything they have done and the risks they take daily to look after our loved ones.
As you can imagine, I need to look after my dad in the coming days and we will then have some arrangements to make for the funeral and dealing with legal stuff surrounding my uncle's house, so I might be absent for a bit, or my posts might be a bit scattered for a while, or I may be able to give updates here and on Twitter-it'll depend how things are going day to day. Blog visits may be sporadic and it might take longer to answer your comments, but I will do so. Trying to deal with all of this in lockdown while self isolating is going to be pretty challenging but we'll get through it, as others have had to do in these trying times.
Let me take this time to thank all of you for your kind thoughts and prayers for my uncle over the last few weeks as you have been a great support to us. You are all amazing. My thoughts are always with you all, hoping that you all remain in good health and that your loved ones are ok. For those dealing with serious medical issues of their own, or the health issues of family members and friends, I send you my best wishes.
Thanks guys
Chuckles
As you can imagine, I need to look after my dad in the coming days and we will then have some arrangements to make for the funeral and dealing with legal stuff surrounding my uncle's house, so I might be absent for a bit, or my posts might be a bit scattered for a while, or I may be able to give updates here and on Twitter-it'll depend how things are going day to day. Blog visits may be sporadic and it might take longer to answer your comments, but I will do so. Trying to deal with all of this in lockdown while self isolating is going to be pretty challenging but we'll get through it, as others have had to do in these trying times.
Let me take this time to thank all of you for your kind thoughts and prayers for my uncle over the last few weeks as you have been a great support to us. You are all amazing. My thoughts are always with you all, hoping that you all remain in good health and that your loved ones are ok. For those dealing with serious medical issues of their own, or the health issues of family members and friends, I send you my best wishes.
Thanks guys
Chuckles
I'm so, so sorry to hear this. I know it's a difficult time for both you and your father, made worse by not being able to be there.
ReplyDeleteMy thoughts are with you right now.
Thanks Karen. We're finding it a bit unreal at the moment because we haven't seen my uncle in weeks. There's so much to do at his house-wish this heatwave would disappear as that would help...
DeleteVery sorry to hear this news. Peace to you and your dad as you have to make all the final arrangements...
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Thanks Bookstooge. The arrangements are taking so much longer with delays on everything because of this virus. I just want to get that side of things dealt with y'now?
DeleteOh gosh, Chuckles I'm so sorry to hear that.
ReplyDeleteThanks Mary. It's been a tough few weeks for sure but he isn't in pain anymore thankfully.
DeleteI'm so so sorry. Losing a loved one is always so hard, even more so now. You and your dad are in my thoughts and prayers!
ReplyDeleteThanks Lark. It's been a weird time with all this virus stuff going on and no hospital visiting. The legal stuff is all going so slow and it just saps the brain. But we'll get there eventually...
DeleteChuckles, I am so very sorry to hear this devastating news. You and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.
ReplyDeleteThanks Carole. My dad has really touched by everyone being so kind.
DeleteI am so sorry to hear about your uncle, it must be hard on all of you especially with the ups and downs with his condition this past couple weeks. My thoughts are with your family at this time, take all the time you need *hugs*
ReplyDelete~Mogsy @ BiblioSanctum
Thanks Mogsy. It's been a rough few weeks for sure and now all the legal stuff and arrangements are just weighing us down. We'll get through it though and we appreciate everyone's kind thoughts.
DeleteThis is a non-post related comment, so you don't have to publish if you don't want to. I just found out that blogger is switching to another editor sometime in June and I tried it out today and man, it sucked. Have you started using the new editor and is there any place I could get some tips on using it to make stuff look like how I used to?
ReplyDeleteI'm pretty peeved, as wordpress is doing the exact same thing in 2 days and the problems there can't be worked around.
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I've been ignoring Blogger's request for me to try the new set up as I hate new updates on things I'm happy with! I'm now scared to go and take a look coz if it messes up my blog look and operation, I'll get mad. What is it with these stupid companies??? If I have to quit because the new version is no good, I ain't starting up again! Sorry I don't have any advice for you on this. I'm still trying to get up the courage to go and have a look in case I can't get back!!!
DeleteI’m sorry this happened. I was really hoping he’d get better. *Long distance hugs.*
ReplyDeleteAj @ Read All The Things!
Thanks AJ. We were hoping that too but sadly it wasn't to be.
DeleteI'm really sorry about your uncle, Chuckles. I can't imagine having to deal with something like this while in the midst of a pandemic. I'm sure it makes something difficult infinitely harder. You and your family will be in my thoughts.
ReplyDeleteLindsi @ Do You Dog-ear? 💬
Thanks Lindsi. It has been really weird with us not being able to see him at all in hospital and it feels a bit unreal at the moment.We'll get through it though-it'll just take time.
DeleteOh I'm so sorry to hear this. I'm behind on my post reading and just read where you said he had a setback. I was very much hoping it was temporary but it doesn't sound like that's the case. If I could box up strength and peace for both you and your dad and send it over I would but you will be in my thoughts. I'm so sorry.
ReplyDeleteYes sadly it wasn't a setback and he passed a week ago. Thanks for your kind thoughts and words-we appreciate it.
DeleteI'm so sorry to hear this!
ReplyDeleteThanks Nicci. He's at peace now which is a comfort.
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